Sunday, June 4
Controversies
Some things are best to kept hidden when no one cared or cares about it. Some things are meant to be kept hidden especially if it is about another person.
Words of Wisdom by Ryan Sordan
Why are there such things as controversies? It will not only ruin your friendship, but it will also ruin the way people look at you. Once you have an issue or something like it, it will definitely change a certain part of your life. It will affect your friendship someway or another. It will never be the same thing ever again.
But what's different in the story is that, the person who spreads out these rumors is the person who is the least person that is close to you. That person feels that since his "not-so-good friend" is in the spotlight, he will do everything to steal the spotlight from that person. He would tell lies and a whole lot of rumors just to get off the spotlight. He would feel as if he and the person involed were really close and that he knew everything about the person involved. This is really sickening. A person who acts to be your friend just to share or even grab the attention away really bugs me. And the thing that really hurts is that that guy's rumor was actually believed by the people that he told the rumor to. Now, everything is a mess. It's hard to fix a rumor, you know.
Now, what did that have to do with me? Hmm... There's this person I know, who is really bugging me. And because of a simple gesture, that person acts as if we were close friends. And now, that person is actually spreading rumors about something that concerns me. Its hard to fix because that person has a lot of friends, and I mean a lot. And it's hard to fix those kinds of things because they wont believe you; they would just believe what their friend says.
This kind of things really makes it hard for something to be united. Everytime a rumor gets started, someone... and I mean someone will get hurt. Hence, there will be no unity in a group. I just wish that everything will turn out fine once I clear my name. But the thing is? What is the controversy about me? I'm not even sure what those people are telling about me. I don't know who to believe. But all I know is that, the truth will really come at the end of all this. And that, everything will be resolved. Of course, there will still be that less trust in that person.